Life after the death of dear and near one will be difficult for everyone. I have gone through that phase after losing my dearest mom at a young age, all my life revolved around her, and 22nd of this month (April ) is her 3rd death anniversary our attachment is very intense ( I wont say was because there is no was for our souls) , after her death I wend into chronic depression, but during those period I leaned a lot about life.
I know it is had to bear the pain on physical death of our loved ones, because we all are learned to believe that we lost the person for ever and we cant feel his/her physical presence any more. But the fact is we are not losing the person because the person is not the physical body, the real person is the soul. The person will remain too close to our heart, because in spiritual world closeness in measured in Love but in physical world closeness in measured in the ability to make a physical contact. I can give you a simple example for explaining this truth about closeness. Think about an irritating colligue who you don’t love that much ( this is only to give you an idea, spiritually speaking we don’t have to hate anybody ) this colligue may be very close to you and your mom who is in another city . Who is closer to you? the colligue or your mom? the exact answer will be your mom. Our Physical body is a temperory bio suit and our soul is permanent, losing our body can be compared with shedding our clothes. Even if we cant have physical contact with deceased loved ones, we can have a spiritual contact with them.
Tags: coping with death, Death and life
