I know it is had to bear the pain on physical death of our loved ones, because we all are learned to believe that we lost the person  for ever and we cant feel  his/her physical presence any more. But the fact is we are not losing the person because the person is not the physical body, the real person is the soul. The person will remain too close to our heart,  because in spiritual world closeness in measured in Love but in physical world closeness in measured in the ability to make a physical contact. I can give you a simple example for explaining this truth about closeness. Think about an irritating colligue who you don’t love that much ( this is only to give you an idea, spiritually speaking we don’t have to hate anybody ) this colligue may be very close to you and your mom who is in another city . Who is closer to you? the colligue or your mom? the exact answer will be your mom. Our Physical body is a temperory bio suit and our soul is permanent, losing our body can be compared with shedding our clothes. Even if we cant have physical contact with deceased loved ones,  we can have a spiritual contact with them.

After death we will miss sensing our loved once with our 5 sensory organs ( Touch, smell, taste, see and hear )  scientific proofs says the things we feel through our 5 senses are not the real stuff, it is hiding some real stuffs from us, what we feel as real is just energy vibrations picked up by our sensory organs and later translated into physical stuffs by our brain which is not real so if we cant find our loved ones through our physical senses that doesn’t mean they are lost for ever, after losing their physical identity they moves into a higher spiritual dimension read my article about dimensions.
Death shuts down our brain which shut down all their physical senses and their physical form disappears which makes us impossible to seance through our physical seances.